Some people

Yes, your going to tell me 'OMG another post involving chuck' So sue me, alright. I have two kids with the schmuck and five years. If it wasn't for the bitterness involving the break up we'd probably be good friends. Well anyways. Chuck has a son by an ex-girlfriend. Someone he was with for nine months and left before finding out about her being pregnant (so I'm told) now you can speculate whether he knew or not, but nothing was said for two years. It was assumed the man she was dating was the father, because, well, hello, most woman don't wait that long to let someone know they have a son. If they do, there's usually ulterior motives. (in some cases, there is NO ulterior motives IE rape, abusive relationships) which, I've been with chuck, so I know none of those reasons had to apply. Anyways.. so, two years, and Miss Ex's boyfriend dies, she has a little girl by this fellow so, going on welfare, gets social security for her, and BAM hits chuck upside the head with child support. Now, chuck pays it, yes, he does not shurk that duty. It's automatically withdrawn from his paycheck every month. 200$ smack a roo's. That's twice as much as I was able to get for our daughter. Anyway, the first year after that there didn't seem to be a problem with chuck visiting his son, especially after we split the first time. Then, when I moved back in with my mother, it seemed to peeter out. I blame chuck for not staying on top of things, but I also blame Miss Ex for deliberately making things difficult.


Now, she puts up a blog on myspace about removing pictures because chuck refuses to remove pictures of his son from his space. She says he's a 'sperm donor' and to 'leave us alone'. That's nice, considered sperm donors have the benefits of not being sued for financial responsibility, and considering earlier in the year, he had asked her to visit his son.. and she came back with several big fat 'no's' I told chuck, he needs to start cracking down on this. This is his son, and to stop trying just because your presented a 'no' by someone who has no right to say it in the first place, isn't really trying. It's either share the responsibility and know your son, or let her roll over you and take what you got for nothing in return. And yes I'm leaving her name out of it here, out of respect for privacy. Her posting it on a public blog, is another matter.

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